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is there any hope for me my husband is stilling looking at porn i just found out when we have sex he thinks of the girls on the porn sites what am i going to do i don't think i am strong enough to handle this i really want to divorce him but i do love him will this ever go away will this pain go away what do i do? he says hes done now but i don't think it is even possible for him to be done i want to trust him but will i ever? what should i do i am thinking of moving out we have two kids and i don't want them to have divored parents i also don't think they need to be around a unhappy marriage i am so alone. also whenever i try to work this problem out he gets mad and does not want to talk about it what should i do?
Jon wrote on June 15th 08 at 01:03PM
hey wassup don't do that just because there's bumps in the road try getting him some help and when he's at work or something go on his computer install k9 web protection and set a password but don't tell him
Jonfun wrote on June 15th 08 at 08:08PM
Three things...I'm not an expert but I am very close to this subject. I've pray that God has brought me to help you figure this out so that things work out for his glory.
Communication
Commitment
Compassion
The divorce rate in the US is over 50% now. Most if not all divorce cases end because of lack of communication. Anger one thing that prevents communication. Take him to netrual ground. For lack of a better example: McDonald's. Dicuss it.
Commitment is a HUGE thing! You and him made a commitment to each other and God! Until death do you part! If you really feel that it isn't going to work divorce is a LAST opition. Continue to pray about it this one.
Compassion is understanding it all. Understand why he does it. Is it thrill? Is it fantasy? Is it all of that? I remember because I was around it quite a bit at one point in my life and it took me down the wrong path God didn't want me on in the world.
Finally, yes, software...I agree with the first post. He'll be anger that you snuck it on there but explain he violated your trust first. There will be mud slinging. Not of this is every clean so be ready figure it all out with out getting to dirty. God bless.
Communication
Commitment
Compassion
The divorce rate in the US is over 50% now. Most if not all divorce cases end because of lack of communication. Anger one thing that prevents communication. Take him to netrual ground. For lack of a better example: McDonald's. Dicuss it.
Commitment is a HUGE thing! You and him made a commitment to each other and God! Until death do you part! If you really feel that it isn't going to work divorce is a LAST opition. Continue to pray about it this one.
Compassion is understanding it all. Understand why he does it. Is it thrill? Is it fantasy? Is it all of that? I remember because I was around it quite a bit at one point in my life and it took me down the wrong path God didn't want me on in the world.
Finally, yes, software...I agree with the first post. He'll be anger that you snuck it on there but explain he violated your trust first. There will be mud slinging. Not of this is every clean so be ready figure it all out with out getting to dirty. God bless.
