METROSEXUAL
X3 featured in The Metro Newspaper in the UK, in their portion of the paper called "Metrosexual." We were in London this past year and they heard about the work we do. Check it out...
Taking a path away from the streets
There are about 80,000 women working in the British sex industry and Annie Lobért has a personal message for each one of them: 'Your purpose in life is not to spread your legs,' she says firmly. 'You deserve to be treated like a princess.'
Lobért (pictured below) worked as a high-class escort in Las Vegas for 11 years.
During my years as an escort I was raped at gunpoint, beaten and kidnapped. I developed cancer, too
She found God two years ago – or rather God found her just as she collapsed from a heart attack caused by a cocaine overdose.
'All around me was darkness and I suddenly remembered Him,' she says. Her revelation changed her life so much that she's now on a mission to save sex workers, both male and female, from the life she led for so long.
She runs Hookers For Jesus, an evangelical organisation, and travels all over Las Vegas telling strippers and prostitutes that God loves them.
Such is Lobért's success that, just hours before our chat, she was ordering textbooks for a pimp who is about to go back into education.
Giving it back
'I sometimes make appointments to visit girls or I walk into clubs and casinos and talk to them,' says Lobért, who is single and lives on donations to her ministry.
'I don't preach; I believe in holding people's hands so they can see He understands them and wants a relationship with them.
Most people are really interested, but I do get spat on sometimes.' Lobért's life hasn't been easy but you wouldn't guess it by the tone of her voice; she's as upbeat as you could get. 'I had a traumatic childhood and a relationship in high school that really burnt me.
During my years as an escort I was raped at gunpoint, beaten and kidnapped.
I developed cancer, too – Hodgkin's lymphoma – and had treatment for two years while I still worked as a prostitute.
I became a bitter, angry person who hated men. And then, after my revelation, I decided to give back what I had taken from people and I started smiling again.'
To reach sex workers, Lobért, with her peroxide blonde hair and ample chest, believes she needs to look the part. 'There's no point holding a Bible over your head and shouting about repenting. No one will listen. You have to mix fun with seriousness – if there's not enough fun, who's going to want to be a Christian?'
It is her fellow Christians, however, who are her biggest critics. According to Lobért, they often complain about her outfits.
'They say my T-shirt is too tight but, hey, when in Vegas, do as Vegas does.' She has also come under fire from the sex industry and earlier this month was asked to leave the Adult Entertainment Expo in Vegas, where she had a stall.
She was working with her friend, former stripper Heather Veitch, who runs her own faith-based organisation, JC's Girls – JC being Jesus Christ, of course.
The work of Lobért and Veitch points to something much bigger going on in the US – a feeling that sinners should not be judged. Take the XXXChurch, another Bible-based organisation that was set up five years ago. Its mission is to save those addicted to porn.
Brandon Piety has worked there for two years. 'We want to be a part of a new kind of Christianity that moves away from condemning but meets the needs in our world instead,' he says.
'Jesus loves porn stars as much as he loves pastors, housewives, prostitutes and prime ministers. We want to reach people surrounded by pornography and give them a message of hope. There is something better than porn. That is the hope found in Jesus.'
Offering advice
Piety's work seems to be paying off – XXXChurch has just helped six people leave the porn industry. 'We helped them quit their jobs and we hooked them up with a church, mentors and financial assistance,' says Piety.
Lobért is also working on plans to set up a 24-hour hotline that offers sex workers advice on how to get out of the industry, plus an education programme for female prisoners who are serving sentences for prostitution.
'I am confident both will happen,' says Lobért. 'It's not difficult to make people happy again – just tell them they're loved. Tell them God loves them.'
http://www.metro.co.uk/metrosexual/
Sadly enough it's blessing wasn't enough as I also failed yet again this evening.
It's a painful habit and today yet again I have promised my self to fight and win ... but it's difficult.
Although I had came out very early to my youth pastor and my mother many years ago, I have finally started using 'X3 Watch' with both as my accountability partners and I will keep a testimonial diary in account of viewing my failures and successes, so when freedom is achieved I can share with more brothers and sisters of how they can be free.
I'm going to university next year and I need to kick it before I go:
1. as watching porn is getting more intense and regular
2. I will not be as close to my mum and my pastor and being alone well ... more dangerous, innit
3. it may affect my chances of getting into the uni's i have been accepted into
4. i don't want it to be a generational sin, i don't want this to harm my future children
But most importantly I don't want it to affect my relationship with Jesus.
Just lastly all of us have our many problems, but it is one Jesus who solves them. Just pray that I as well as you will remember this.
KEEP FIGHTIN' BRETHREN
Be nice you never know what might bight you in the bum. ;)
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
But Brandon will start hating us if we don't be nice... that was my lesson of the week, it is no fun to be on Beej's bad side.
To reach sex workers, Lobért, with her peroxide blonde hair and ample chest, believes she needs to look the part. ‘There’s no point holding a Bible over your head and shouting about repenting. No one will listen. You have to mix fun with seriousness – if there’s not enough fun, who’s going to want to be a Christian?’
They say my T-shirt is too tight but, hey, when in Vegas, do as Vegas does.’
To put it simply, God's way is not the way of the world. So to try and save people by using the world's standards is to go about it wrong.
Not to mention that God taught both love and repentance at the same time, not just one or the other.
Feel good sentence of the year.
