Couples

Marsha from Porn to Purity has been through the ups and downs of this addiction as a wife. She is right to the point and very open about what she has been through. We hope that you can get something really good from this blog. Brian  Darcy When I was pregnant with both my boys, my already acute since of smell was magnified by 1000.  I... More...

Here is a blog from one of our friends at porntopurity.com  Jeff and Marsha are another couple who have been down the path of recovery.  They now share their lives with others to let others know thay are not alone in this battle. The most frequent question I am asked by wives is “Is there hope for my marriage?”  My... More...

One of the hardest parts of sexual sin is dealing with the consequences. They often come in the form of shame, regret, self-hatred, embarrassment, disgust, and hopelessness.  They aren’t always internal feelings either, they can be about the way your sin affects others - hurt loved ones, divorce, loss of a job, loss of trust or loss of... More...

Over time porn took the place of so many things in my life.  I had become blind to all the things around me because I had started to believe the lies it was telling me.Lies like:"What's a little porn going to do to you?  Not like it could hurt any one."Yep; I fell for that one hook, line, and sinker.  The fact of the matter was that... More...

My wife and I have a 19-month-old boy. He is just starting the throwing tantrums and taking swings at people stage, and gets really frustrated when he doesn’t get what he wants. Man it sucks when he throws a tantrum or takes a swing at you. And it’s even more embarrassing when it happens in public. We love him so much, but it’s... More...

Feeling like you are not heard, or misunderstood, is one of the fastest paths to loneliness. When we don’t believe that another person really knows or understands our heart, we can get lost in a crowd, feel all alone. Many men who struggle sexually will know exactly what I am talking about; this may be his daily experience. Tragically, it is... More...

There is a difference between a “relapse” and a “slip”.“relapse” –  when you are back to living the lifestyle of the addiction“slip” –  when you act out but return to recovery relatively quickly A slip may be one time or a “binge” for a number of days, but it... More...

I heard this song from Switchfoot for the first time the other day.  I am not able to write the most amazing words and often struggle when it comes to these blogs.  But Switchfoot nailed how I felt inside and the battle that took place so often with me, God, and porn.  I know I look back at this now and realize I should have stood... More...

Not to long ago Darcy and I had a chance to take a trip to California without the kids.  This gave us some time to talk and reflect a bit about what we had been through and how things are going now.  One topic that we talked about was a question people have asked more lately. The questions was "Did you love Darcy when you were addicted... More...

“Father we pray that this sin would no longer exist and that you would remove it from our lives.  We ask that the temptations and thoughts disappear and that our marriage be restored the way it should be.  We pray this in you your sons name; Amen"As a couple healing from the scars of sexual addiction we have prayed many times for... More...