Couples

Recently in Bogota, Colombia you may have heard there was a big explosion outside a radio station in the centre of the city. I’ve been living in Bogota for nearly 8 months and this is my first experience of any bombs, shooting etc etc. The same day after the explosion took place I went to meet a friend and we were walking to grab a bit to... More...

Porn addiction for married men could cause them to lose their intimacy with their wives. Instead of resolving their problems together, he will go into a fantasy world where she would not be able to reach him. Understanding and communication will be lost.  The husband, instead of asking what needs to be done to make the relationship happy... More...

This blog is from our friend Sarah Valente @ Kingdom Twindom. You should see more stuff from her as the time goes on. Her story is very powerful and I know that there are many here who can benefit from her amazing boldness to stand before God and all of us. She is willing to open up all of the doors in her life and let you look in. So please give... More...

People ask often “how can my viewing of porn affect others around me.  I watch it alone; it’s just me and the porn this can not possibly affect others.”  However your actions and habits affect everyone around and your relationship with them.  We hope that with each section we can bring some light to each area and... More...

Over the last couple of weeks I have been really struggling with stress. This stress has been caused by numerous things piling up around me with my work and personal life. Between going to work and online college, I have honestly neglected my marriage and most importantly my relationship with God. My relationship with my wife is very important. We... More...

There are some many other things I would rather do then laundry.  I know I am going to get some flak for this but I am so grateful my wife does the laundry.  When I was single I did, put the dirty clothes in the dryer with dryer sheet to make the smell go away style of laundry and only did laundry in times of desperation i.e.; empty sock... More...

As a couple how do you work through recovery for both you and your spouse? The answer is; one day at a time. During the next two weeks Darcy and I will talk about how both of us got through our recovery and healing one day at a time. The first week Brian will hit on how he did it this way.When we first started our healing as a couple I wanted to... More...

Tom spies a note on the counter  "Went to run a few errands, be home around 6 and I have a surprise for you...xoxo" A smile creeps across Tom's face, but not because of the hugs and kisses nor the surprise, but because he knows he has 45 minutes to visit his favorite solo-girl website before his wife gets home. She arrives home later and... More...

You know not a lot of people are not willing to talk about their sexual relationship and heaven forbid if you talk about sex in church.  Now don't get me wrong I have seen much improvement in the church taking on this subject but, it is still not enough not even close.Brian and I have talked about this before with people, couples, and with... More...

Have you ever when driving, glanced in your rear-view mirror and realized that the person behind you must be late for work, or an important appointment, because they are riding your tail so close you can see the anxiety and frustration on their face? Maybe they are in the middle of a phone conversation that’s apparently upsetting them, or... More...