Why Porn?

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WHO is Porn?

Pornography has become a word in society that has a hold over men and women. Your dad, neighbor, babysitter, pastor, mom, co-worker, sister, roommate, wife, best friend, husband, grandmother, person sitting next to you at the movies, son, daughter, you…

WHAT is Porn?

The overall lie of pornography is that there is an actual draw to the content or that it is relevant to watch. What people tend to want is the emotional rush of adrenalin to medicate everything from boredom to depression in our lives. Pornography provides imagery that is frequently recalled to mind and elaborated on in fantasies. Most people find that in time they experience a need to increase the risk, intensity or frequency of their behavior to achieve the same feeling or neuro-chemical affects. Once addicted, individuals cannot throw off their dependence on the material by themselves, despite many negative consequences such as divorce, loss of family, and problems with the law (job loss, harassment or abuse of fellow employees).

WHEN and WHERE is Porn?

Culture has trained us to think about porn in everything we see. Billboards, TV shows, emails and internet ads. Everywhere we look we are bombarded with images. U.S. adults who regularly visit internet pornography websites-40 million, internet pornography sales-$4.9 billion, pornographic websites-4.2 million (12% of total websites), pornographic pages-420 million, over $3k a second is spent on porn worldwide, 260 new porn sites go online daily, 89% of porn is created in the U.S., 1 of 3 visitors to all adult web sites are women and 9.4 million women access adult web sites each month. If you sent a bottle of vodka to every home in America every week for a year, you would no doubt have a whole wave of alcoholics. The Internet has created a wave of pornography addicts with its pervasive porn delivery mechanisms.

We start to think about it. We start to plan our next time we can get in front of the computer, rent or buy that dvd, recall images that we saw the afternoon before…

WHY PORN?

The Question is “Why Porn?” When we watch pornography we are simply seeing people in acts that drive us to a deeper sense of sexual and emotional intimacy disorder. By watching pornography we are not even involved in any act, we are just imagining that we are. The neuro-chemical rush that takes place while looking at pornography neutralizes inner pain, thereby quickly shifting into an addictive behavior pattern.

Pornography is designed to trap your attention by using all of your senses against you, like a visual virus. When you think about the essence of the content of pornography it is really like breathing in second hand smoke or smelling someone’s breath the morning after a huge night of drinking.

So what’s your answer? WHY PORN?