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		<title>Balance</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/balance.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[When someone is in the throws of addiction there is one thing you can count on.&nbsp; The roller-coaster.&nbsp; Envision a roller-coaster ride.&nbsp; Climbing up, up, up and then a steep and scary drop, then a curve and a twist and an unexpected rise up out of your seat.&nbsp; It is constant chaos.&nbsp; There may be moments of what seems like a bearable ride but then BOOM another twist, turn, jum...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 10:42:37 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>A new perspective</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/anewperspective.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Our eyes have been known to deceive us; to stay focused on the sin that has beset our men.&nbsp; Our minds keep mulling over past hurts, fear of future failures, where we are headed and if the rug will be pulled out from under us again. If you are anything like I am, you have a tendency to operate in self protection mode.&nbsp; I was always trying to find new ways to support my husband but also k...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 23:38:52 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>Do we need the details?</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/doweneedtoknowthedetails.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[This question seems to come up a lot with us women.&nbsp; When we find out that our man is taking up pleasures in something or someone other than us- we want to know all about it!&nbsp; What kind of stuff is he in to?&nbsp; What body parts?&nbsp; What's her hair color?&nbsp; What are her/their measurements?&nbsp; When is he finding the time to do this?&nbsp; What is so good about her/them that I c...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 14:28:52 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>Healing for wives</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/healingforwives.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Healing for Wives Who've Been Hurt  From Adultery or Porn Addiction. by Mike Genung &nbsp; A few years back, I asked my wife to write me a letter describing how my struggle with sex addiction affected her. The following is her letter:  &ldquo;You asked me to write a letter about how your addiction affected me.&nbsp; At the time, things were a bit hazy and I was young and didn't know what...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 22:02:36 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>When our husbands look elsewhere...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/whenourhusbandlookselsewherewefeellikewerenotenough.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[When our husband's look elsewhere, usually we feel like we are not enough.&nbsp;  &nbsp; When a husband takes a second or third glance at women in public, looks intently at women on magazine covers, views pornography, checks out dating sites, and or has an extramarital affair we are left feeling like we just don't measure up and sadly more often than not a wife feels as if somehow this is her fa...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 11:42:29 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>Failures are a part of the process.</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/failuresareapartoftheprocess.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I must be suffering from writers block during the times I refer to other articles- but this is one that I think is a must read for those of us who have chosen to stand with our husbands as they continue to battle through their struggle with pornography.&nbsp; I have heard some opposition that if a man is a new creation in Christ that he will never ever struggle again and if he does then there is n...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:04:26 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>You want to know if he is a sex addict?</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/youwanttoknowifheisasexaddict.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[Often when a wife discovers her husband has been involved with pornography or an extra-marital relationship she comes to the place in her mind where she wants to know: "Is my husband (boyfriend or fiance') a sex addict?" I found this article online by Dr. Doug Weiss.&nbsp; I just want to preface that in my opinion Doug is coming more from a psychological perspective than a biblical perspective, h...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 13:16:20 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>It's not your fault however...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/itsnotyourfaulthowever.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[A common thread that seems to link a lot of us wives together is that we feel (in the beginning stages of the discovery) like we must be to blame somewhere for this horrible problem.&nbsp; There is a stereo type out there and believe me I know it is real because I was once 'of' the world.&nbsp; The stereo type says that "if her man was getting it at home he wouldn't need to get it elsewhere." That...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 21:57:00 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>Should a wife view porn with her husband?</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/shouldawifeviewpornwithherhusband.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I have heard this question asked numerous times when a wife finds out that her husband is viewing porn.&nbsp; Somehow she thinks that if she joins him in watching porn it will perhaps make it easier for both of them in that she isn't left out (hence the 'extra'-marital affair) and he isn't cheating or being selfish because she is right by his side. Other women have thought that if they were willi...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 12:11:04 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>How you can help the spouse</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/howyoucanhelpthespouse.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[While the spouses section here is intended for the spouse of the one struggling in sexual sin,&nbsp; I felt led to put up a blog for those who come to this section who are trying to relate to the spouse- who want to help the spouse but are unsure how to do that.&nbsp; This particular blog entry will also serve (hopefully) to affirm the spouse that they are not alone and that I understand what they...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 14:53:17 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>What the "sexperts" say...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/whatthesexpertssay.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I found this article today and well,&nbsp; I won't tell you what I think.&nbsp; Instead... why don't you take a look and tell me what YOU think? &nbsp; Can Men Look at Porn and Want their Wife? Question My husband is looking at porn on the Internet. He says he loves me deeply and that the porn comes second to us. He says that I don't make him feel loved but that he wants me. He has never sa...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 22:22:28 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>God never leaves us alone...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/godneverleavesusalone.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[&nbsp; This morning I was pondering the emptiness that you (I) feel when our spouses have chosen something or someone over their marriage.&nbsp; That empty feeling of wondering if you will ever "belong" somewhere again? When my husband chose his sin repeatedly over me, it didn't just effect his walk with the Lord&nbsp; or just his life; it effected my life. It shook my world as I knew it.&nbsp; ...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 13:31:15 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>How do you  I get past the pain...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/howdoyouigetpastthepain.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I have found for me that the key to this is 'forgiveness' and 'mind renewal'. Forgiveness doesn&rsquo;t mean that the offense didn&rsquo;t happen; it means you are choosing to release the offender from the debt owed to you. Forgiveness      really isn&rsquo;t for the offender as much as it is for us.&nbsp; When we choose to forgive an offender; an un-repentant offender at that, we are the ones...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 08:12:36 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>Should you stay or should you go...</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/shouldyoustayorshouldyougo.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I believe that we are called to love and are called to mercy. That can be displayed in staying and it can be displayed in separating.  When a woman first finds out that her husband is wrapped up in this blanket of sexual sin there are a range of emotions that grip us. We are dumbfounded, hurt, shocked, angry and embarrassed.&nbsp; In my opinion, we must allow God to help us in dealing with tho...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 09:52:27 -0500</pubDate>
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		<title>I am</title>
		<link>http://xxxchurch.com/blogs/spouses/iam.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[I am&hellip;I am a woman.I am a believer of the gospel of Jesus Christ.I am a mother.I am the wife of a man bound by the lie of porn.I am embracing the freedom that Christ offers in the midst of the storm.I am not&hellip;I am not a counselor.I am not super-human or super spiritual.I am not without sin of my own.I am not better than my spouse.I am not alone even though I am alone.It is my desire to...]]></description>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 00:36:44 -0500</pubDate>
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