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X3Live-Tuesday at 9am and 6pm PDT

By Craig on Saturday, September 4 2010 at 07:58 AM | | Comments

This Tuesday we have an exciting X3Live event happening. I will be sharing a talk called "6 ways to ruin your marriage" that I shared this summer over in Seattle. I will be in the X3live chat area to answer any questions during the event as well.  We will be showing part II which is "6 Ways To Ruin Your Marriage" on October 5th at 9am and 6pm PDT as well.

Tune into to www.xxxchurch.com/x3live this Tuesday at 9am PDT.

 

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