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It's a very difficult thing to always try to do right, to turn your back constantly on the things of the flesh. It's all to easy to forget why we live a Christian life. Living on the road has showed me how many evils are waiting for us out there. I'm one of four boys, the middle child in fact, and I have lived a very sheltered life. I have never smoked, been drunk, or done drugs. Traveling has... More...

In an attempt to make parents’ heads explode, Facebook introduced another possibly perplexing wrinkle to their ever-expanding social web. Places is a new app that will allow users to share their real-time location data, commonly referred to as geolocation, with their friends and possibly friends of friends. Places is a natural extension of Facebook’s core functions as a social... More...

Pure Eyes: A Men's Guide to Sexual IntegrityChapter 7 - Grab Your Shovel"Daily Prayer"As you understand the true nature of Scripture, your prayers will have much deeper meaning to both you and God. In following God’s scriptural expectations for you, you will have the confidence and certainty of heart to ask God openly for the blessings he promises his followers. Conversely, when you have... More...

Pure Heart: A Women's Guide to Sexual IntegrityChapter 10 - Purity (Broken Beginnings Made Whole)"No More Bitterness" After I read her eulogy, Candice and I spent some time discussing what got us to a place where we were so spiritually schizophrenic when it came to our sexuality. One of the things we both admitted was that our tainted past had a lot to do with it. I won’t speak for... More...

This post is dedicated to my beautiful, tree-like husband….even if he doesn’t think he is beautiful.It seems I married a sapling….a new believer who was cut down, right and left, by anything that sought to destroy. Years one through three it was the big things, cheating of course being the biggest, but there were other things as well. I read somewhere awhile back that... More...

Recently in Bogota, Colombia you may have heard there was a big explosion outside a radio station in the centre of the city. I’ve been living in Bogota for nearly 8 months and this is my first experience of any bombs, shooting etc etc. The same day after the explosion took place I went to meet a friend and we were walking to grab a bit to eat at a restaurant but to get to the restaurant we... More...

Eyes of Integrity: The Porn Pandemic and How It Affects YouChapter 7 - A Safe Work Place"Brazen Use"Porn use at work is now so widespread that just about every company has a monitoring system in place. According to a 2008 Nielsen online study, 25 percent of employees with internet connections use them to visit porn sites, which is up 23 percent from the previous year.1 A recent survey found that... More...

This entry is an introduction to a multi blog series of topics describing the main areas the Lord worked within me that ultimately led to me gaining more control over masturbation and having more freedom, peace, and joy in my life than I ever thought was possible.  I am writing in hopes that what I learned through my healing process can help you in some way.  But you must push into your... More...