Letter to myself:
I’m writing to you because I want to help. I can see that you’re struggling and have been so for awhile now. I know what you’re going through, I’ve seen your victories and your defeats. I believe in you because you are a child of God, and I’ve seen you find breakthroughs before. You’ve just let this go on for too long now and it’s time to make a change. You have a beautiful wife who loves you to pieces, and needs you to be the man she thought she was marrying, not what you have become these past 15-18months. I’m not sure if you realised just how long it’s been going on for, but you need to deal with it now before it’s too late. You also have a beautiful daughter who can’t get enough of you and needs you to be a Daddy who is free from the chains of porn addiction. You’re not doing this alone, I’m here with you. I want to encourage you, walk with you, give you strength and lead you to freedom in this area. I know there will be steps forward and a few backwards, but we ARE walking out the other side of this free. You do love your wife and daughter I can see that, and we’re doing this for them as much as for you. I’ve given you everything you need to walk this out. Now let’s get moving! It’s a new day Nic, and it’s the day I’ve made, so we will rejoice and be glad in it. I love you, so let’s begin this journey together. I believe in you!
Letter from my sex addict:
Thanks for the letter, it really meant a lot to hear those words from you. I’ve known deep down for awhile now that things weren’t ok in this area. I’m not exactly sure how I ended up here again, but it’s just been a slow, steady decline into it. I need your help to get out of here. I love my wife and daughter too much to get trapped here any longer. I’m disgusted and disappointed with myself if I’m honest. I need to find freedom in this area or risk my marriage and those things which mean the most to me in the world. I’m ready and willing to start this journey with you. Day One of thirty.