Girl! You are not alone.  You are not the first to walk through this and not the last!  There is something so comforting about the words “I get it.  I’ve been there.”  God never intended us to do this life alone!  We need other people, especially in our struggles.  I want to encourage you to reach out and tell SAFE PEOPLE that you are having a rough time.  It’s time for some accountability.  You may not have a Porn, drug, or alcohol addiction, but we need others to help us make good choices in all we do.  The church is called “the body” and I don’t know about your body parts, but mine work together.  I want to encourage you to reach out but also start looking for others to encourage and walk with.  Maybe that means you get into an accountability relationship.  Maybe it means you are a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on.  Here you are on xxxchurch site, searching for someone who gets it.  This is a good place to start……now go find others to walk it out with!  I love this song….here are the lyrics…..READ THEM. LIVE THEM.

Carry Each Other  
Aaron Niequist

Life is not ment to live,  On shoulders and shins, All alone. It’s too heavy to hold. We need the arms of a friend, Again and again, To be strong.  And walk with us ahead. Love is not ment to live, On tongues and on lips, All alone.  We gotta let our love show. In how we give and we hope, And make His way known. Redemption’s calling! If we are a temple – then I am a stone If we are a body – then I am a bone If we are community – then I’m not alone I’m not alone, and You’re not alone, We’re not alone. . . We need to carry each other! God has made us to be, A new family, Of His blood.  For eternity. From every nation and name,  The call is the same, Love and unity!

We’ve got:
Different gifts and different names
Different dreams and different ways
Different hopes and different views
Different walks but one God.
Different strengths and different paths
Different loves and different pasts
Different needs and different beliefs
Different dreams but one God!