I have seen this little book all over the place throughout the last several years. I have never read it because it says “For Women Only”. I just got introduced to the author Shanti and look forward to hearing her speak and spending some more time with her next week. I bought the book and read it and my wife read it as well and it is amazing.  In the book she talks about 7 revelations she discoverd through research about men. 

Many women understand these factors on a surface level, but do not know what they mean in practice. The seven relevations are:

Surface Understanding What That Means in Practice
“Men need respect” Men would rather feel unloved than inadequate and disrespected
“Men are insecure” Despite their “in control” exterior, men often feel like imposters and are insecure that their inadequacies will be discovered
“Men are providers” Even if you personally made enough income to support the family’s lifestyle, it would make no difference to the mental burden he feels to provide
“Men want more sex” Your sexual desire for your husband profoundly affects his sense of well-being and confidence in all areas of his life
“Men are visual” Even happily married men struggle with being pulled toward live and recollected images of other women
“Men are unromantic clods” Actually, most men enjoy romance (sometimes in different ways) and want to be romantic–but hesitate because they doubt they can succeed
“Men care about appearance” You don’t need to be a size 3, but your man does need to see you making the effort to take care of yourself – and he will take on significant cost or inconvenience in order to support you

You can get the book on Amazon or check out Shaunti’s website. She has a ton of other books and even one for us guys called “For Men Only” which I am almost finished with.