(Shellie Here: I remember when one of my friends, who was a virgin when she got married, was wanting some advice about her wedding night. Unfortunately, I didn’t advise her from what I remembered about my first time, which was awkward, uncomfortable, quick and non…some things-LOL. I spoke to her based on the years of experience that I had since that time. Needless to say, it caused her to be ill-prepared and a little caught off guard (“swinging off of chandeliers” takes years of practice!). Indeed, the first time *with your spouse* from a spriitual standpoint, *especially if you waited until marriage*, should be one of the most beautiful experiences you will ever have. Oh, but from a physical and *practical place*, it’s a journey. And still, even for me, based on the fact that I have yet to be married, I still am not thoroughly equipped to speak on the subject of married sex (REAL SEX) and so I asked The Light to do it. I like how *real* they are about it. I also dig that it looks like they’re sitting on their *marriage bed*-Hebrews 13:4-to do it. Indeed, without *clear communication*, when it comes to *good sex*, you don’t have much of nothing. Enjoy!)

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