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Lipstick on a Pig

By Kevin Outland on Fri, Oct 17th 08 at 09:24AM | Permalink | Comments (7)

There was a lot of talk in the media a few weeks back about how if you put lipstick on a pig it’s still a pig. On the Internet there are a lot of pigs with lipstick. Many websites like to try to disguise themselves in the hopes of tricking our kids into going to places that may seem innocent on the outside (the lipstick part) but are rotten on the inside (the pig part). Porn sites are famous for this. They have used innocent sounding websites names to trick kids into visiting them. Some past examples of this have been websites like KidsLearn2Read.com, CivilWarBattles.com and even Hanukkah.com. Fortunately these 3 website no longer contain porn. Another “Lip Stick on a Pig” trick that porn sites have used is to have websites names that are misspelled versions of popular websites. So your kid is doing some research for school and mistypes a letter in the website they’re trying to go to and they get a porn site instead. There are many other “Lipstick on a Pig” tricks that porn sites use but you get the idea.

Why do the porn sites play this “Lipstick on a Pig” game? Because they know that there is a good chance they can hook people on porn if they can get them to see it. It's sort of like the drug dealer who gives out some free samples because once you’re hooked then it’s time to pay. And the younger they hook them the better - it could be a life long customer they’ve just landed.

Parents be careful about this “Lipstick on a Pig” trap. It’s all over the Internet. Keep a close eye on your child’s surfing and encourage open dialog. Ask your children if they’ve ever run into a “Lipstick on a Pig” trap. Let them know it’s ok to tell you about it. Some children are scared to tell their parents that they’ve accidentally come across porn on the Internet. Let them know that they won’t get in trouble for telling you when this happens. Because if they don’t feel they can talk to you about it they just might end up liking the pig.

If you have a "Lipstick on a Pig" story please post a comment about it. It may help others avoid the trap.


wolfgang wrote on October 17th 08 at 02:17PM
Back in junior high, the one we encountered was whitehouse.com. We were too young to know to put .gov. The school had a filter, but this one slipped through the cracks.
Suricou Raven wrote on October 25th 08 at 05:54AM
This is a problem. There are a lot of respectable porn sites that would never stoop to such depths - but there are also a lot of sites that will do anything for a viewer.

I think it's not so much the paying subscriber they hope to catch as the casual wanderer who may look around a bit and see some advertising. Advertising views mean money. Clicks mean even more. People who stumble onto sites accidentially are very unlikely to become paying customers, but more likely to provide ad revenue.

This is certinly true on any of the sites with addresses that seem to lure in minors... people who can't possibly provide a subscription revenue, because they don't have a credit card. The only possible income they can provide is advertising.

Not that I'm an expert. Ask Ron, he should know something about how the porn business works :>

There isn't anything that can be done about it. Regulation is out of the question - even if banned in one country, there are hundreds of others the servers could be relocated to. Filters reduce the chance, but cannot eliminate it - espicially as the sites change so fast. It's just something that must be accepted: Use the internet, and sooner or later you *will* see porn. That's just the nature of the internet at this time. Unchangeable.

Even if you block the lipstick-on-a-pig sites, many social communities will see the occasional porn pic posted, google image search can be a bit iffy, p2p is just full of it, and all over the seedier side of the internet there are ad-banners showing teaser images.

In my view, far more effective than any type of blocking system would be for users to simply learn to resist the curiosity or temptation and close the site down. An accidential glimpse isn't going to hurt anyone. Click the X, problem solved.

There is no escape from the porn, so the only option is to learn to live with it. See it, ignore it, close the window - don't get worked up into an outrage or go overboard with ineffective countermeasures.
Kelly wrote on October 25th 08 at 04:21PM
When I was 12 years old I was doing research for a school report when I accidently brought up a hardcore porn site. Although I grew up seeing my dad looking at Playboy, the accidental website was the first place I ever saw hardcore. All of the porn images stuck in my mind and soon lead to masturbation. Eight years later, here I am I young woman still struggling with masturbation and sexual websites.
PEFRIZZ wrote on October 28th 08 at 07:34PM
After reading some of your comments, I can only hope none of you ever get caught in the trap that those of us in the security and law enforcement communities find ourselves in; exposing yourself to minimal levels of porn in order to survive the streets, only to find yourself depserately trying and rebuild whatever psychological barrier you once had (against porn), while trying to salvage what little bit of a Christian testimony you have left (if any), only to find yourself in a savage fight against the Gates of Hell (and possibly even Satan himself), as you try and recover from the sin of lust, fetishism and whatever else porn may have been to you. I am in that desperate fight now and prya none of you find yourself here!!!
Jay wrote on October 30th 08 at 06:32PM
Pornography is not good do not follow it!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEFRIZZ wrote on October 30th 08 at 08:44PM
Jay - your statement is far easier said, than done; just ask Jimmy Swaggart, he is a good example of what I find myself dealing with. And just because he repented, as have I, doesn't mean he recovered from the psychological hell that he put himself through, anymore than I have; I fear that the psychological recovery will be far more painful than I am aware of - especially since I have a "wondering eye," just like every other Christian man.
Kevin Outland wrote on November 26th 08 at 01:49PM
@Pefrizz: Thanks for you honest comments about your struggles. I'll be praying for you. If you have not read it yet a great book that you may find helpful is "Every Man's Battle".

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