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SALT

By Steve-Oh on Jun 22, 09 at 12:41 PM | | Comments (9)

Happy Monday X3ers!! I hope all you dads out there had a great Fathers Day! Now lets roll.. 

  Several weeks ago i had the privilege of going with X3 to Exxxotica Miami. I had a great time passing out bibles and spending time talking with people who were interested in what we were doing there. One day while working the booth i had a guy come up to me and ask for another bible because "the guy across the street knocked mine out of my hand." I asked him who he was talking about and he said the guys across the street yelling at everyone telling them they are going to hell. This got my curiosity up and thought that this would be a good time for a break. So Sam and i went out and what i saw shocked me more than anything on the convention floor. Across the street there were 2 guys holding signs and yelling at folks as they passed by. These two "prophets" as they call themselves were calling women whores and sluts. They were telling everyone that they were going to hell and that "God doesn't love you!" This blew my mind. How can anyone who claims to know Jesus say the things they were saying to people. One of the guys exact words to me were "God doesn't love these people." After hearing those words my heart hurt. My heart hurt for every person passing by that had to hear those words coming out of his mouth. That day and several days after those words haunted me "God doesn't love those people."

A couple of weeks later i was working on a prime time (Sunday School @ my church) lesson for my dad's mens class. I was going to be sharing about what we did in Miami. While working on my lesson i came to a verse i had read and heard sermons on many times. When i read it (it being Matt 5:14-16 salt & light) it hit me!! We all know that we are to be a light shining as a city on a hill. We are to be a light in a dark place. I think most of us have that one down. But what about the salt? Every sermon i have ever heard about salt the minister talked about us was this. If salt has not flavor, it had no value. If Christians make no effort to affect the world around them, they have little or no value. We should bring out the best in everyone around us. Pastors have also talked about salt being a natural preservative meaning we are to help each other from rotting spiritually. But here is the thing that grabbed me, i don't know about you but salt makes me thirsty. I think that movie theaters have this figured out. They put extra salt on the popcorn so you will get thirsty and have to buy the big $7 dollar drink. We are to be that way as followers of Christ. We should show the love of Jesus in a way that people looking at us thirst for what we have in Christ. Have them asking about the Living Water that the women at the well asked about and received.

As for the 2 guys yelling and screaming they were more like vinegar. There approach was very bitter and sour. After eating something bitter like vinegar nothing tastes right after that not even water. It takes time to get that taste out of your mouth. As these guys "preach" ( i use the term loosely) they turn people away from Christ. They help make the case that all christians are fanatics that only love and care about their own. There rhetoric is not uplifing. It is condeming. Jesus loves us all. We are to show Christs love daily. Make people thirst for what we have. If you make them thirst ,they will ask for water.

I have one more thing to say about salt. Salt helps wounds to heal. We need to pay attention to the people around us who are walking around with open wounds. Be there for them, talk with them, reassure them that they are loved scars and all .

For those of you who are reading this and are walking around with open wounds you are not alone. Your wounds could be addiction (porn, drug, alcohol, ect), it could be problems with your children, problems at work. Only you know what is hurting you. Maybe you have been hurt by the church i know i was. Find someone in your life that you see as SALT. If you don't know anyone like that there are plenty of people here who are ready to help. Just ask.

Thanks for taking time to read my blog. I hope it opened your eyes and hearts to someting new. Always remember LOVE JESUS/LOVE PEOPLE!!

 

Steve-Oh

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Morris wrote on June 22, 2009 at 10:34 PM

ah just new , read some of Steves story . wow
I been fighiting porn for off and on for most of my life. Was raised with adult sexual experences from the age of 4 yrs old.
I was doing real good for a couple of months and then bingo . right back in the trap

Suricou Raven wrote on June 23, 2009 at 04:17 AM

I've always just ignored the salt part, on the assumption it's meaning has been lost. I'm sure it made sense at the time, but languages change - whatever the expression meant then, it's no longer in use.

Salt used to be a very valuable luxury good - the romans paid the soldiers partially in salt, thus the expression 'worth his salt,' and even the word salary derives from the latin salis.

I don't see how it would make sense for anyone to instruct the early christians to be a preservative. A flavoring makes a little more sense, but not much. Perhaps it's related to the color - as a substance which achieves a very clean white color when properly ground up, and a rare and expensive one, it seems plausable that salt might have been symbolic of purity or of cleanliness, something that people from the jewish culture would have valued.

The only other mention of salt in the bibleI know of is Lot's wife after God throws his little tantrum, so that doesn't help. I think it's just best ignore the word then, as we can't determine reliably it's intended meaning.

Matt wrote on June 23, 2009 at 05:23 AM

Great post, Steve-Oh! Thanks for illuminating and illustrating such an important verse for us. As Raven says above, I've always passed over the salt part as it never had much resonance for me as a 21st century dude. This post of yours draws out some very challenging and instructive applications for me. I'd never thought about salt making you thirsty, but that's definitely something I could be thinking about more amongst my friends.

So keep up the great work, and thanks for putting in the study behind this post. I can tell you're going to be a great blessing to the community here!

Neil Roessler wrote on June 23, 2009 at 11:26 AM

Wow! That was amazing. I watched the episode about this event and was amazed at how those men reacted to you. Lets just way you are loving the lost sheep, and the work you are doing is for the Lord. Thank you for sharing this, I really feel like people will receive healing through these words. So many people are jaded by Christians. Sometimes we forget to be cristocentric and become egocentric. People don't want Christians they want Christ. Keep up representing christ in everything you do!

Yukio wrote on June 23, 2009 at 07:47 PM

I feel sorry for those like the two who yell at people as they pass by. They will never really feel the thrill of seeing a life changed by Jesus in the same way that those of us with compassion and understanding do.

Oliver wrote on June 24, 2009 at 12:14 PM

Who would gain by condemning sinners to their faces so strongly that the sinners decide once and for all not to care about repentance or even to believe in God? The Devil, perhaps. For those who would come to God must first believe that he is, and he is a rewarder of them who diligently seek him (Heb. 11:6). But what would be the purpose of declaring that God does not love people except to destroy faith in them of God’s existence and his will for their salvation. Who would benefit most of the resulting loss of faith except the Devil, who wishes that we all fail the grace of God?

I don’t know why men rail against sinners, as you have described of the two men, but it is a work of the flesh and just as damnable as fornication or drunkenness. In fact, it is named with them:

But now I have written unto you not to keep company with any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such a one no not to eat. (1 Cor 5:11).

What is ‘railing’? It is verbal abuse. It is loud hate speech toward people. But those two railers are a symptom of a disease that has plagued America since its foundation by Europeans: The ungodly desire in so-called ‘believers’ to conform America into a ‘Christian country’ by force of secular law and cultural coercion. But there is no such thing as a ‘Christian country’, since there is no model for it in the New Testament prior to Jesus’s return. The Church age is the age of the ‘called out’. The age of the peculiar people out of all nations who are following Jesus and are zealous of doing good works (Titus 2:14).

The Religious Right treats such railers as righteous front-line fighters of the ‘cause’. But it’s an ungodly cause. The culture war, declare blasphemously in the name of Jesus, must stop now. It is forbidden by scripture:

For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? Do not ye judge them that are within? But them that are without God judges. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person (1 Cor. 5:12-13).

We are to do all things to the glory of God, but what glory would God get from such malicious railing? I can think of none. Which aspects of the fruits of the Spirit are revealed in hate speech? Where was such railing against unbelievers ever modeled in the New Testament? The demagogues of the Religious Right stir up people by their railing against sinners, inciting fear and hatred toward others. And to what end? To make their own lives more prosperous and secure. Don’t they know that perfect fear casts out love? Does rialing against sinners show even a hint of God’s love toward them? Love is patient; love is kind. Love hopes all things. Love suffers for righteousness sake.

Are those railers so pure in their own sexual lusts before God that they can in good conscience rail against sinners without even a hint of hypocrisy? I know this: that any person who has ever lusted on an image in porn has been a part of the porn industry. We all recognize the commonality of its origin in our shared fallen humanity: The spirit that lives within us lusts to envy (James 4:5).

One sobering standard to remember for all of us that try to minister God’s love and his message of repentance from sin is this:

He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathers not with me, scatters abroad (Matt. 12:30).

So, does the railing of the Religious Right gather in with Jesus or scatter sinners away from him? Young people say it scatters them away. Our churches are being stripped of their young people. Homosexuals say it scatters them away. I know this for a fact because I was an open homosexual for 22 years.

I do not speak of the Religious Right as just an outsider. I used to be a member of it long ago, when it was just beginning with the inception of the so-called Moral Majority and the like. Then in 1980, when the news that John Lennon was murdered, I overheard a person of the Religious Right declare that she was glad he was dead. I was shocked! True, I didn't agree with everything he preached, but I was sorry he died. I still believed that God loved him. But that opened my eyes to the hidden selfish and malicious spirit that motivates the modern Religious Right. And that was the beginning of the end of my involvement in it. Moralism is evil because its fruits are evil. When you believe that the immoral people around you are threatening your secure life and the material things you covet of this world, you begin to lose your love for them, seeing them as your enemy. That’s so wrong.

So, imagine that we are the few survivors after our ship at sea has gone down. We are in the lifeboat with lots of room, but the two railers are there too. We see people bobbing up and down in the water, confused and searching for rescue, so we who love people yell to them to save themselves by swimming to the boat. But the railers yell out, “Don't bother. We don’t want you here with us.” I just don’t get what motivates them, but it’s a work of the flesh.

Victory in Jesus

suricou Raven wrote on June 24, 2009 at 01:58 PM

"I just don’t get what motivates them."

The great satisfaction that comes from knowing they are superior to everyone else.

I just give blood.

Nic Trevena wrote on June 25, 2009 at 06:24 AM

All I can think of to do watching the video and reading this article from my home in Australia is to pray. It rankles me whenever such monstrous, perverse doctrine is showered upon people. I want to physically break something. But all I can ever do is leave these cares to Jesus, he is the Judge, not me. I hope those moralists don't cause any more harm than they already have. It reminds me of a bumper sticker my friend saw once: "Fight like a real man. Get on your knees and pray." Grace with you all.

John wrote on June 26, 2009 at 12:46 PM

Great reminder. Am giving it all to God right now as I am facing 20-years in prison. The spotlight is on me and I need to reflect him. God Bless!

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