Womens

We at X3 are here for you wherever you are at. We acknowledge and understand that many women struggle with pornography. There are thousands of other women who have been through what you have and there are thousands who are dealing with it right now. We know we do not have all the answers but we hope that you can find community and some starting points for help and healing on this site.

You must know you are not alone and there are other women who feel and have felt the same way you do right now. Most of all know there are others who have found hope and recovery living lives away from porn and sexual addiction. Change today because the life that God’s wants for you is one of freedom. There is hope and you can heal.

NEXT STEPS

1. Confess
Go before God with everything. Confess your struggles through prayer. He already knows it all anyway, right? You have to put all your junk out on the table and acknowledge that you can’t handle it anymore and that you need God. You cannot handle it on your own.

2. Get accountable
Find someone in your life that you trust and let him or her in on your struggles. Such as a close friend, pastor or family member. You are not alone. You are not supposed to deal and carry this on your own. God has placed people around you that will walk with you as you move toward freedom. As women we naturally feel an inclination to want to keep it all to ourselves because of the lie that few women deal with these issues. It it is time to go to those closest to you for help.

Download XXXchurch's free accountability software X3watch. It’s simple and completely free. This software monitors what is accessed online and sends a report of any questionable websites to your accountability partners email addresses.

» Download it at www.x3watch.com

3. Clean it up
Throw away the porn stash or erotic novels. Delete it all. Literally get rid of the things that are tripping you up. It is time to break that pattern of the things that make you stumble, the things you go right back to.

You may need to cancel your cable or internet altogether, move the computer out of the basement to the kitchen or get a filter on your computer. Take solid action steps toward moving away from your places of struggle. The process of cleaning it up is continuous and will not happen overnight. Define the specific situations you struggle and take tangible steps to eliminate those places from your life.