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An X3 Live Event for Wives Affected by Porn

By Nicole on Mar 07, 10 at 09:09 AM | | Comments (1)

I saw this question posted on our site today:

 

Do you think porn has affected the people around you?

 

And all the wives shout: YES!

 

My husband's addiction has certainly affected me and our entire family. It has affected our marriage, our finances, and our relationships with family members and friends. And it has changed me. At first in devastating ways, such as tearing apart my self esteem, challenging my faith, and isolating me me from people I love. Eventually, our recovery began to change me too. I've learned to love myself. My relationship with God has been transformed, renewed, and strengthened. And I have come to a place where our marriage, with all of its struggles and imperfections, continues to inch closer to resembling what God intended it to be. With recovery I have found hope.

 

Over the years I've learned that we, as wives, share such similar experiences. While the details of our stories may differ, the themes are so often the same: pain, anger, resentment, distrust, loneliness, grief, confusion. If your husband's relationship with pornography has affected you in any of those ways, I hope you will join me here on April 5th for the next X3 Live event. At 6:00 PM Pacific time we'll be playing a video of me sharing my story and answering some of the common questions women ask. Craig Gross and I will also be taking your questions in the live chat. 

 

If you have questions that you would like to have answered, leave them in the comments. Husbands are welcome to leave their questions too. I'll try to answer as many as I can. 

 

See you then!

 

Nicole WIck/Craig Gross @ XXXChurch Headquarters

Monday, April 5th

6:00 PM to 7:00 PM PST

Watch live on xxxchurch.com

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Sharon wrote on March 08, 2010 at 10:30 PM

Before we got married my husband promised me he would not look at porn again. Five years later I discovered by spy ware he was looking again. We are both Christians and very active in our Church. I am so confused. Some days I want to work through this and others I just want to leave. I know that the enemy wins if I leave him. But then how can our relationship ever recover? Didn't he commit adultry?

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