Need Some Quotes!
Hey Guys. This is not my blog but I needed some help. My friend Steven Luff and I are working on a project for MEN. Anyways, here is what we are in need of. Please feel free to share on
the comments section. I hope you all enjoy this blog as I am thankfull that Steve writes it for us all.
We need anonymous quotes from healthy
Christian husbands regarding how much of a blessing their sex lives
have been to them. I would also welcome quotes from healthy unmarried
Christian men regarding how much of a blessing their abstinence has
been to them.
Thanks,
Craig
David McDougal wrote on June 30th 08 at 07:18AM
WOW, that is awesome my wife and I were just talking about this on Saturday. I had to confide in my wife that when we are intimate (not just sex but the entire expression that sex entails) it is MUCH MUCH easier for me to keep my thoughts captive.
This was not a easy conversation though, as my wife took this to mean that I am demanding more sex, or that she is not sexy enough for me to not want to wander.
We talked for about an hour, and we both came to understand the importance of sex in our marriage. With all the business of life, and such it often becomes the thing that we just push off to the weekend, and then even we are too busy. We have gone weeks without it, and we both feel the effects.
GOD has blessed me with a loving and understanding wife that knows she is a wonderful and beautiful women. She understands that she is the only woman that I desire in my heart. My wife is also not nieve and knows that men are visual, and with summer hear there is a LOT of visual out there. My wife strives hard to help me in every aspect of my life to keep me pure from sexual sin, so SATAN does not have a foothold.
We use services like XXXchurch website, X3 watch (MAC), and Safe-Eyes to help me on the computer. We use our marriage and healthy sexual attraction and action to help also.
I can say with a 100% assurance that when my wife and I are intimate on a regular basis (1-2X a week) then my ability to remain pure is 1000% enhanced. I do not leer, think, or fantasize in anyway about other women. I find myself even desiring more to turn the channel to even the soft stuff on TV.
It is truly a blessing the way that GOD has designed intimacy (which sex is part of) to be a shield against the devil. When GOD said he is gives us all the tools to defeat the evil one, I never thought SEX would be a tool. GO GOD!
This was not a easy conversation though, as my wife took this to mean that I am demanding more sex, or that she is not sexy enough for me to not want to wander.
We talked for about an hour, and we both came to understand the importance of sex in our marriage. With all the business of life, and such it often becomes the thing that we just push off to the weekend, and then even we are too busy. We have gone weeks without it, and we both feel the effects.
GOD has blessed me with a loving and understanding wife that knows she is a wonderful and beautiful women. She understands that she is the only woman that I desire in my heart. My wife is also not nieve and knows that men are visual, and with summer hear there is a LOT of visual out there. My wife strives hard to help me in every aspect of my life to keep me pure from sexual sin, so SATAN does not have a foothold.
We use services like XXXchurch website, X3 watch (MAC), and Safe-Eyes to help me on the computer. We use our marriage and healthy sexual attraction and action to help also.
I can say with a 100% assurance that when my wife and I are intimate on a regular basis (1-2X a week) then my ability to remain pure is 1000% enhanced. I do not leer, think, or fantasize in anyway about other women. I find myself even desiring more to turn the channel to even the soft stuff on TV.
It is truly a blessing the way that GOD has designed intimacy (which sex is part of) to be a shield against the devil. When GOD said he is gives us all the tools to defeat the evil one, I never thought SEX would be a tool. GO GOD!
Philip wrote on June 30th 08 at 07:19PM
Abstinence for me has been amazing. I am not married, but staying pure in my relationships with the opposite sex has gotten me so close to God. I have been down the dark dark road of sexual sin in relationships and pornography. It's filthy. You feel awful. But you just can't get away. My relationships with girlfriends became more and more about sex. It became gripping, even depressing, not being able to refrain from sexual sin. But I kept coming back for more of God's forgiveness. I've been pure in my relationships for almost a year now. Praise God. The more you seek Him, the more you will find Him. Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. God requires all of us. So my sexuality is definitely a part of me. That is harder for me to give to God than my money! But it feels great when I do.
Ali wrote on June 30th 08 at 09:09PM
As a single man who has been abstaining from sexual sin for a couple months now I would say that indulging in sexual sin is rather selfish and abstaining would be freedom. It brings you closer to God but it also just makes you a better person.
manuel wrote on July 2nd 08 at 05:54PM
I AM A SINGLE MATURE MALE WHO THE LORD HAS NOT GRANTED A WIFE YET. I was lead to belive that i was a homosexual for most of my teens and adult life. I came to know the lord at the age of 23 and dedicated my life to him from then on. I was never attracted to pornography until i started not prayng or readingthe bible as christian man should. This was a terrible mistake. The moment I got a computer I was hooked to homosexual pornography instantly. It was devastating and almost destroyed me. I was able to speak to my pastor and come clean to him asking him for help. I was blessed to have found help then. But if you dont have a pastor to speak to find a trusted friend and speak to him, you will be amased of the responce of love that you will receive. With God strengh and mercy I was able to walk away. I whrite thise for the men who are single and strugoul. dont be embarrased or feel ashamed of other men in the church they all have stuff in their life who are not able to share once your open up you see all the love and help you guys will recive. keep your life centerd in God love and wait for that special woman in your life.
