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Frequently Asked Questions.
I do have a problem with pron. I have tryed to use blocks, programs that filter and monoter your surfing. My question is that being very good with the computer… would this be something that i can turn off and on or is it something that would let others know that it has been shut down. I have tryed Net nanny and I was able to turn it off when I would surf and then turn it on when I was done. It was even password protected and didn’t know the password. Thank you for your time!
With X3 Watch Pro your partners will get a report of you turning it off. It is also password protected as well.
Recently, I’ve seen porn sites listed in the history on my computer. I have caught my husband twice now. I am so angry that he wasn’t up front about it. I had to catch him before he confessed. I am so angry with him right now that it’s hard to support something he’s been hididng for so long. Is this normal? I mean, I’ve known about the pornography before we got married, but I thought all that would change once we got married. I had no idea it was an addiction in him. I am not sure what to do. Is there any suggestions? How do I support someone that hides stuff? I don’t want to leave him. I need some kind of direction. Help plz?
leelah,
I know that this hurts and that there is pain that you are going through. Please know that we are here are praying fro you.
The first thing that you need to do is sit down with your husband and talk to him about your feelings for what he is doing. Be honest with him and share your true and raw emotions with him. make sure to keep it a conversation and not an argument with him. Let him know that you want to help him with this and that it is a vice that is dividing your marriage.
If he is willing to talk to you and he decides that he wants help then start on setting up a plan. Get accoutnability, ad bring people in who will help him as well as help you. You have to heal in all of this and you need to have people around you as well to help.
If he is not willing to get help and you two attend a church let him know that you are going to talk to someone at church that will help you with this and hopefully him as well.
You can check out the resources on this site under get help and then select the spouses page. there is a resource page in this area and you can find several places to go to for help.
Please know that we are here for you and that we will be praying for you.
Every time I go.to.a.website it asks me if I want to use x3 or the internet. Is there a way to have it default to x3 ways?
Please visit www.x3watch.com/techsupport.html for tech support with the android.
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