Questions

Frequently Asked Questions.

I am a wife whose husband has been involved with viewing porm

Do you have anything available for a wife whose husband has just revealed he has been looking at porn? I am beyond devastated and have no idea how to carry on with life.

Yes, absolutely. I’m sorry that you are dealing with this in your marriage. You are not alone and hopefully you can get the support and encouragement you need to be able to walk alongside of your husband in this. First I would recommend going to our Get Help Section that specifically addresses this. Then visit the abundance of resources we have available for the spouse. Lastly— you may also be interested in joining one of our X3groups for spouses.

God has not abandoned you and He will carry you through to heal your broken heart if you allow Him. I just said a prayer for you.

Extra-Marital Affair

Do you have any groups to connect with pertaining to Extra-Marital affairs? I confessed to my wife that I cheated on her with another man… This is influenced by past sexual situations that happened during middle school and have influenced this sexual deviancy within myself… I am seeing a counselor and working to restore my marriage but I was also hoping for other support groups.

While we do not have a group specifically for those who have had extramarital affairs, the X3groups do have members in groups that have had them. You may want to consider joining one of the groups to see if it is a good fit for you. I do think you will find the encouragement, accountability and support that these groups offer helpful.

Porn Addiction and Dating

During the years that I have been addicted to porn, my view of women has been twisted and warped. After 6 years of being a slave to porn, I am ready to make a stand at the age of 18. I feel that this website, along with the workshop, is a good first step. However, in his love, sex, and dating series, Andy Stanley suggested that it might be a good idea for some people to take a year off from dating. He said that I can use this year as a time to “renew my mind to think differently” and “make up my mind to behave differently.” I feel that dating, might be a distraction while I try to tear free from this burden, and taking a year off from it to focus on reconstructing the way I think might be a good option. However, this is a big decision. I am currently praying for guidance on this matter. My question to you is: What are your thoughts? Do you think this could be a good choice for me while I take this journey?

Yes! As simple as that: YES!