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Frequently Asked Questions.
is masturbation a sin? masturbating without even thinking of lustful thoughts.
Sex is a gift given to us by God to be between a women and a man who is married. It is my honest opinion that when you masterbate you are having sex in a way that is not pleasing to God and is not what God has intended it to be. So yes, masturbation is a sin.
My husband is very techie and he always deletes his history. Always. On his computer and on his iPhone. He always says that he does it to make things run faster… Is that a legitimate reason? It’s has always made me feel weird and suspicious of him possible watching porn, but when I ask him, he denies it. So I usually let it go. We have the free version of x3watch on his computers but I don’t always get reports. When I do, there is NOTHING there. Ever. And I’m sure there should be, even if it’s not porn. Isn’t it supposed to pick up on even questionable words? It just seems weird to me that in the 6 months we have had the program, there is nothing ever listed in my reports. Also, he has an iPhone. And the history is always empty. I looked at your iPhone version of x3 watch, and couldn’t he just re-enable safari and watch porn if he wanted to, without me knowing?
I would have a conversation with you husband and ask him why the history on the phone is never there. The excuse for the history being gone to make his computer run faster is not anything I have ever heard of that works or is used. My history on our computer and my owrk computer are very lengthy and they work just fine.
Do not accuse him but, have a conversaion about it with him. If you come at him with anger he will feel backed up in the corner and shut down and start to try and defend himself right out of the gate.
What effects/impact does the use of porn have on a girlfriend boyfriend relationship?
It has a big part to do in your relastionship. When you allow porn into your relationship you allow for lies to dictate what sex really is to be like. Porn will lead you so far away from what God has inteneded sex to be like between a married man and women.
It will over time tell you that what ponrn iswill be better than real life porn. Porn is something that will neve tell you no and it will end up being what someone goes to in order to get their complete fix.
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