Questions

My boyfriend has struggled for years with porn. His dad had xxxchurch installed on all of the computers in their house when he lived at home. But now he’s been out of their house for 3 years and has been looking at it pretty regularly up until we had a very long talk about it. He didn’t look at it (as far as I know) for about a year. But about 3 months ago started looking at it again about twice a week or so. I confronted him on it. And told him that I would try to help him, but I wasn’t going to marry him if this continued because I refused to be second to it. Well, he promised me that he would re install the program his dad had back in the day. But I don’t think he has. So i’m wondering if there is a way to have the program installed where there is nothing visibly out there on your computer. I honestly don’t even know how the program works. Because I had never heard of it before him.

I haven’t been on this website in quite a while so it’s changed a lot. Is there an appropriate place or forum for spousal support or is that gone? I don’t know what to do. My husband hid his addiction from me for 6 years – I did not find out until 2 months after we were married. I keep believing him when he says it’s under control, but when he finally breaks down and tells me the truth – I find out that he’s been telling lies of omission and using clever wording to deceive me. … I want to help him, but I don’t know how. … I want to stay with him, but I don’t know how I can. I’m so heart-broken, but I realize this isn’t about me. He needs help – but how can I ever trust him again? How can I lay with him knowing how he’s chosen not to see his recovery through? We have two children … and the spiritual head of our family is sexually immoral. what do i do? I’ve been trying to be supportive and I know that he can overcome this trial, but I don’t know how much longer I can do this! I know the priority is his relationship with God, but I don’t know what my obligations are anymore … I can’t sleep. I have no appetite. I’m almost glad to finally feel sadness because for the last week all I’ve felt was resolve to leave, and even when I consider it – all that really comes to mind is a checklist of what i need to do to make sure the kids and i will be ok.

is anal masterbation more of a sin because i realy enjoy it more than vaginal masterbation