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I am trying to view my husbands/sons reports and when I click on links to questionable sites it just pulls up script. Is there a way to view these links so I can find out what the questionable sites are?
Heather,
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First, I would like to say that I struggle with my own addiction to masturbation and had a past with other guys, so there is no judgement here for my boyfriend (in fact we have chosen not to kiss for long time, to make sure there is no temptation). This is the first guy I have been in a real relationship with (where I feel like we are both falling for each other). I am pretty overweight (though probably not considered obese). My boyfriend is very shy and didn’t tell me until now that my weight is a problem for him. He says he is worried about a future together because he doesn’t find the weight attractive, but does find me attractive (which doesn’t necessarily make sense to me). He told me this is the only thing he really worries about when considering marriage with me. He used to look at a lot of pornography and admitted that this might have caused him to have an unfair view of body image. Upon further discussion, he isn’t sure if is doing anything wrong with putting so much weight on my weight. I worry that even if I lose weight now, he will not want me as I grow older and don’t look the same as this age (and typically weight gain occurs there, too.) I realize that I need to lose weight for health reasons, but do you think that this is a normal issue in relationship between Christians or that it could be caused by the porn? If so, do you have any thoughts to help him heal his mind/expectation (in addition, I will be working on losing weight)? Any advice/thoughts/verses helpful!
His thoughts and comments to you are very shallow and very unchristian like. If it where me and I am sure many others I would walk away from this relationship. He appears to be a very selfish person who is only looking out for one thing at this time and that is himself. You are so much better than that and deserve someone who will love you for who you are and will be able to love you for that and not the way that you appear on the outside.
I am inquiring about getting some help for my husband. He is curently awaiting sentening for child pornography and has been trying to get help and it seems everywhere we turn the help seems to just stop. He wants to change and get help to stop this addiction of pornography that has been in his life since he was around the age of 12. I looked on your website to see if there was anything that I could send him and there is not much that I found that wasnt online. I saw an article about the triple x church where you guys helped another guy that struggled with the addiction of child pornography. If there is anyway you could possibly help, that would be greatly appreciated. I believe God has a plan for us through this trial and that He is going to use this for His glory.
Amanda,
We have a few live in programs that we support and there happens to be one not to far from you. The group is Pure Life Ministries. This is a great program and has proven its self time and time again. I would suggest that you get in contact with them. Here is there web address. http://www.purelifeministries.org/
Please know that you are not alone in this and that we are praying for you and your husband.
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