Questions

Frequently Asked Questions.

cyber sex addiction

How do I get help. I have searched for help with porn addiction and cyber sex addiction but have only found information for MEN – and don’t know where to turn. I am a happily married Christian woman and a few years back I started acting out on line – I stopped for a while but just recently have started again and I am so scared and I don’t know how to stop. How do I get help?

Krissy,

We will have brand new X3Pure workshops and one that will definitely speak to what you’re struggling with. I am hoping they will be available by the fall of 2010.

In the meantime you might want to check out the X3Pure workshop for single women. I understand you’re married but I really believe these biblical principals apply across the board. You can also check out other ministries such as Pure Life Ministries (who does offer counseling by phone for women) and dirtygirlsministries.com (these are just suggestions- you will have to decide if they are a good fit for you.)

You are not alone. I know it feels like it- but assuredly I say to you that you are not.

God bless you, dear one. -Michelle-

cyber sex addiction

Check out our resources and aloso another group called http://www.dirtygirlsministries.com/

pornography

I have found out that my boyfriend of three years looks up porn on the internet every day at work. He has lied to me about it, tried to make me feel like im being paranoid, and denied it over and over until i finally caught him out by looking up his browser history. Im struggling because i feel he doesnt care for me and is living in a fantasy world instead. I am Christian, he is not. I want to know what i should do about it? I dont know whether i want to stay with him anymore because of the amount of lies he has delivered in the past. What can i do to save our relationship if i know that this is something he will continue to do? I know he will also just hide it from me in the future too. I dont know where to go from here because i cant accept it and am struggling to trust him.

I would strongly suggest that you talk to him about it and let him know how it makes you feel. Find out were he stands on this and if he wants help than you can direct him to our site or maybe someone from your church or a good friend who might understand.

You have to be honest with him and if he doesn’t want to change and you have tried than maybe it is time to move on. I know that is harsh but, you do not want to be in a marriage that is haunted by porn addiction.