Questions

Frequently Asked Questions.

porn

I have been addicted to porn for a while and I just need help to get it out of my life. what can i do to get rid of it for good?

Get accountability and tell someone about it. You will never get rid of it on your own. Get accountability software or a filter. You may also check out our site under resources as well.

Porn addiction

Hey.
I’ve been a porn addict for 1 year now, and I’m still addicted. My father is a preacher, and I’ve always been growing up with the theory that porn was wrong. But, where in the Bible does it say anything about porn? Why is it so wrong? What makes it wrong? Why do we compare porn with religion? Please help!

Porn is lust and that is in the bible. You are watching someone who is not your wife and lusting after her. This is one thing.

sexual desires

I’ve been struggling with sexual desires and wanting premarital sex for over a year. I know its wrong and I absolutely hate it and hate the fact that I struggle with it. Recently I got involved with a conversation between a girl and myself. It went to far, we started talking about sex and what we wanted to do and where and when we could. Bigger problem is that it wasn’t her, it was her friend posing as her and the girl that was actually texting me showed her resource officer at school. She keeps changing her story when she talks to the officer though. I repented and asked God’s forgiveness for my unrighteousness and sin.And I want to turn away from it. I struggled with porn but I’ve turned away from it. I know I can do it, I just need help to give me confidences. Both myself and the girl I thought I was texting know that we wouldn’t do anything past a kiss, we’re both too shy, probably too shy to even kiss or hug. I’m really confused about all of this, like I repented but i’m scared to death that the wrong people know about this and that they will take it another way than it was meant. I didn’t mean for it to get this crazy but it did. Can you help me? Give me support? Something. I need help, i’m struggling with sexual desires beyond what I ever thought I could.

Dylan

There really is no way around the fact that this is out in the open with the text stuff. Just be honest and stand firm in the truth. You have done the right thing by repenting and God knows your heart in all of this.

As for being right with God and trying to stay clean you need to get accountability. I know it can be hard but you need to find someone who will walk with you through this. It may be a parent, friend, or someone from church. The fact is this sin will eat you alive if you do not have someone who will protect and hold you to your commitment.

Know you are not alone and that others have done this and you can as well with God’s help.