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Frequently Asked Questions.
I’m addicted to masturbation, its became a daily thing for me. I want to stop so badly! I know I’m ruining something special between myself and my future wife and it kills me to know that. I don’t know what to do to help. I need help. Can you help me please?
I would suggest finding someone whome you can tell in your church or group of friends that you trust. You need accountability and the option to have someone ask you how it is going. You also need to remove all things in your life that may give the thoughts that turn you to masterbation.
I have my own laptop, which I share with the rest of the family because it’s a better computer than our family CPU. Do you know of a good blocking program for a computer that isn’t too invasive given that other people, namely my younger sister, are also using the computer?
I would look into www.safeeyes.com their filter is good and very user friendly. Very strong program.
My boyfriend and I are closer than most married couples. We rely on each other and support each other, because we love each other very deeply. We know, consequently, of our partner’s most shamed flaws and problems. My boyfriend is addicted to masturbation (and porn, to whatever extent). I mean REALLY REALLY REALLY addicted. Its polluting his mind, my mind, our relationship, his relationship with God, everything. He wants so bad to be rid of it. I try my best to help him (without crossing the line and having to know too much). I motivate him the best I can, but, it just doesnt help enough. He’s been battling it for years, and struggling more recently for a year. Please, Please….how can I help him? How can he become pure?
He needs to get accountability and that can not be you. He needs to share his struggle with others and have them hold him accountable.
Get a filter for the computer and have somene else set the password so he can not get into it and change it. goto www.safeeyes.com and www.x3watch.com
If he is as addicted as you say he really should consider going to see a conselor to help him as well.
I hope that this helped.
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