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Frequently Asked Questions.
I was addicted, but was clean for 6 months. Now I’m right back where I started. I’ve lost my conviction & I want help. I don’t know what to do?
Yes- once we become enslaved again to sin it can be doubly troubling. It reminds of the scripture in Matthew chapter 12 verses 43-45 where we are warned that if we clean sin out of our and then don’t stay in the light it will come back seven times greater than it was before.
“Now when the unclean spirit goes out of a man, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, and does not find it. “Then it says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came’; and when it comes, it finds it unoccupied, swept, and put in order.“Then it goes and takes along with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there; and the last state of that man becomes worse than the first. That is the way it will also be with this evil generation.”
However, there is hope when we fail. There is hope in the Truth and in the Light. We know that we cannot trust our feelings but we can trust what is True.
God is faithful and God is true. There are many suggestions in the Word to guide us in getting right with God. You have to be proactive and take those steps. The feelings will come later.
Spend some time in our blogs. There is so much GOOD information there. Get REAL accountability in your life.
You were clean for 6 months so you KNOW that it is POSSIBLE with Christ. You can do it with His strength.
Best wishes
I was raised in a Christian environment and still live in one. However I have struggled with porn and masturbation for awhile now. I feel like that is killing my belief in God and I just don’t know what to do now. I want to believe again and do what is right but I just feel to ashamed and burdened to do so.
Eddy,
Please spend some time on our site reading through the men’s blogs and the resources that are available to you. You are not alone. You can move past but you will need to set yourself up for success.
Only you know what that looks like- only you know what your stumbling blocks are. If you are serious about getting right with God then you need to do whatever it takes to remove those things which keep tripping you up. You need REAL accountability as well. Seek it out. Confess and prosper.
I am a 14 years old guy and i have problems with my sexual identity,porn and masterbation. And i havent got anybody to talk about this.Should i talk about this with myfriends?How can I start it?Is there any guy who could stop with masterbating?And how can I escape from these things?(you know masterbation ect.) Thanks for help! I would be realy thankful if you dont display my question in the question wall.
I would recommend that you spend some time in the students section of our website. You will find blogs and many resources that can help guide you to the next steps. Accountability is super important and we highly recommend that you get honest with someone in your life that is trustworthy and can really truly hold you accountable.
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