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Im ready, finally ready to take the steps necesary. I’ve been a fraud, I’ve lied to everyone. I am not a guy with weird fetishes. I am honestly not a big porn guy. I don’t buy magazines, have memberships etc. Over the past 10 years though, I am hot and cold. Im a great husband, dad and serving the lord then I crash and for some reason feel like I need validation from other women that I am worthy.
It has grown from social media chat to meeting to occasionally ending up in sex. I immediately feel terrible, delete the email, erase my “trail” and promise God that I am finished. I just never seem to know when it will pop up again.
I have partially confessed to my pastor that I have been “virtualy unfaithful” but not that I have actually met someone. I always use the excuse that I am finished and there is no point in ruining my marriage by telling my wife. I continue with the excuse that it is my problem, she doesn’t deserve to be hurt.
I have always struggled with confession, is it to God alone. To God and others (pastor, accountability partner, etc.) or do I need to confess to her and wound her deeply. She deserves better and to hurt her would kill me.
A suggestion or two would be pretty awesome. I did download x3 watch today so that is a step, but I have a feeling it’s not enough.
Thanks,
C
Chris,
This is great that you are getting help and confronting this issue. Getting accountability is a huge step in your recovery. I would also encourage you to post this on the confessions page as well.
Please know that we are praying for you and that no matter who you are or what you do God loves you.
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