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My 14 yr. got a generic tablet (Pandigital (Android)). Is there anyway I can set up a blocker or accountibility on this product? I don’t think he would type in “porn” directly but he is very immature & I cas see him typing in “butts” or anything like that. I did it on my oldest sons & bout 4 porn sites were there on page 1. God Bless, Chad Tener
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I have seeked forgiveness from God, and do believe I have been forgiven and that He is Lord of my life. I have stopped with all my problems. I used to watch stupid videos. It wasnt like traditional porn like people having sex but it was like girls flashing or getting naked. Im not excusing it, it still very much caused major problems in my life. I do feel that I am getting better at this stage in my life. My wife has even supported me through this when I expected her to throw me out. The trouble Im having is that i am still having “wet dreams” I am 32 years old. I hate this… It makes me feel awful all over again and condemned. I ask forgiveness with God. I dont understand it. Is this something from my past that is an attack of the enemy or does this mean I still have problems. I swear I dont go to bed trying to have these thoughts they just come out of nowhere and I would love to know what I need to do. Thanks for your help. I am very embarrassed and have been looking for help all over the internet, and didnt know who else to ask. Sincerely Andy
Andy,
This is a way for your body to release it’s self. If you find yourself having dreams at night that are of sexual images your mind is thinking this while you are sleeping. As you get farther and farther away from the sexual images this will go away. This is not something you need to be ashamed of as it is natural and not something you are doing.
Do you believe that after having sex with a girl you should see it through and marry her? Me and my girlfriend had pre marital sex and stopped but since our relationship has fallen apart, i also have an addiction to porn but the communication is so bad it feels like she will break up with me if I tell her. I feel like she is only with me because of it, is it better to just break it off or should i continue to try and repair our relationship.
Because you decided to have sex out side of marriage does not mean that you need to pursue marriage with this girl. You do need to start to work on the issue you have at hand with your addiction to pornography. Find someone who will be able to be your accountability partner and help you to change your ways. You also should spend more time with God and find out His true way of life for you.
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