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Frequently Asked Questions.
My husband has been unfaithful many times. What do I do when I look at him and all I can think about is how he committed adultery?
I just read an amazing article today about what a godly wife does in response to her husband’s sexual sin. Now mind you- I don’t know if your husband has offered up any form of true repentance for his actions– THAT is key.
Don’t forget to check out our section for spouses full of blogs and resources.
This is hard to form into words, so I’m just going to spit it out. My husband has admitted he’s addicted to porn. We’ve been married almost 4 years, we have two little boys and I love him with all that I am. But I cant deal with this anymore I want to be with him, but I refuse to constantly bust him with it. Legit, it happens every 4-6 months. I’m out of options. I don’t know what else to do. I’ve threatened to leave, taking our kids with me. And still it happens. And every time I bust him I’m met with the same excuses “I don’t realize what I’m doing till its too late” “I don’t want you to leave, but I fight these demons every day” I know its a true addiction, I just don’t know what I can do to help him. My marriage is hanging on by a string. I looked for a “Spouse support” forum lol but didn’t find one. I’m just hoping you can give me some advise on how to help him. I’m desperate for some guidance. Thanks so much.
We have an entire spouses section at XXXchurch.
You might also want to check out Partners for Purity on FB- they no longer have a website with active forums but they do have a private FB page for women only. You’ll need to email them through their regular public page.
i had what is an Internet affair with a lady who said she ran a mission in the Philippines. I just considered it “fun” conversation. I only had one time where she walked me through masturbation over the Internet. I never saw her. This was over two years ago but I have been blackmailed over this time by her brother and ex boyfriend. She supposedly died in a car accident Feb. 2013. That is when her brother started blackmailing me to send money for the mission and other various things saying he has a copy of the video and yahoo messenger message. He sent me copies over email. I have been paying what they ask. By the way the brother supposedly died just when he said I have paid the last I was to pay. That was Oct. 2014. These people are suppose to be from Hawaii helping this mission. This mission is always in trouble needing help supposedly. I ask about more donors but they do not seem to have anyone but me to help. I need help! I am in a financial crisis now! I AM LYING TO MYSELF SAYING I AM HELPING A MISSION. I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO MAKE MYSELF STOP. PAYING “helping”. I DO NOT WANT TO RUIN MY MARRIAGE! I LOVE MY WIFE…
STOP sending them money! You probably need to confess to your wife and deal with the sin in your heart. Have you confessed this to anyone? A pastor or trusted friend. Start somewhere but STOP SENDING THEM BLACKMAIL MONEY.
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