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How can I get a filter to instal in our home computer and also for the cell phones ? Please help Thank You Marisol
Hi Marisol,
X3watchPro is available for both computers and mobile products.
Kudos to you for seeing this as a need!
My husband and I have followed all the suggested guidelines in dealing with our 13 yr old son watching porn. First, I caught him upstairs on his sisters (16yrs old) computer (alone) watching inappropriate sexual sites.We sat him down and talked about it. We even had his 20 yr old brother talk to him. We thought he got it. Then I found my IPad in our RV with the history full of inappropriate sexual content. We talked again. Then put our computers away. How my son found my IPad is beyond me but I once again found it in our RV, but this time the had history come up on YouTube of “having sex with kids”. I am very disturb. I’m not some ignorant mother who looks the other way in any situation. I have no clue where he is getting this. He won’t communicate to us, he only agrees it is wrong and sex is meant to be between man and wife. But yet he it seeking out sick sites with dangerous consequences. My husband and I are clueless. We have prayed with him, over him and continue to minister to him about the beauty and sanctity of sexual relations and he still….. Anyways, we have 3 younger kids in the house with him and this is becoming a great concern. He has been caught masterbating in odd places. Like outside! Please help! Desperate Mom
Dear Michell,
My question to you would be why is there not a filter on all the computers in your home including your iPad? This is imperative when raising kids in this day in age. Please consider X3watch pro filter and accountability. There is even a feature where you can get a phone call or text message IMMEDIATELY the moment questionable content is being accessed OR the moment someone uninstalls the software.
Next, it sounds like you need the help of a professional counselor to work with your son. While your love for him is apparent– I really think outside mediation might be most helpful. Perhaps you and your husband might make a counseling phone call to Pure Life Ministries— they have professional counselors on staff who can guide you as well as help you to find a counselor in your area.
Best wishes
My son has 2 homes one with his mom and one with me. He is 7. His mom is now married, however he has had a live in BF (now husband). They are going to have different opinions about sex, love, and marriage. I am no angel I have just come to Christ about 4 years ago. I have been single all the time. I have dated but no living arrangements and I have been looking to purity with the intent of bringing God glory with my life. My son totally trust me and “I just want to know how I can combat a world view of sex with a biblical perspective without condemning his mom.” I love her and her new children as they are my son’s siblings, with respect to her, she is living out of the narratives that she knows to be true. He is starting to get sexually charged and I have heard things like “I want to be famous cause that is how you get the girls.” I have asked him if he has ever seen dirty pictures. He says he has heard about them. I have opened up the door to him that he could tell me about them if he ever did. So we got the “TALK” going. Thanks for your excellent resources and protection for our Homes. I am porn free and you have helped me so much. Billy
Billy,
We so commend you for taking this issue on with your son at his age. You are right on track! I love your heart to be respectful to his mother even if your beliefs are different about sexuality and purity. This will go a long way in your son’s life— as a matter of fact, I dare say that this example will go further than any of the differences you two may have.
Keep reinforcing what you know to be the truth while handling everyone and every situation in love.
God bless you.
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