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I’ve been curious about sex since the age of 9, I remember distinctly getting “the sex talk” from my mum in year 4 after teachers at school became concerned that me and my friends were talking about sex too much. Around that age I started, what I know realise from reading other women’s confessions was masturbating. But it didn’t include visualizing anything or anyone, just kind of acting out with my body (usually in bed at night)the urges I had (kind of as a release) and what seemed to feel good. I’m not sure exactly what triggered these urges as I dont remember watching any sex scenes or pornography at all as a kid, I was pretty sheltered. And even now as a grown up single woman I still have times when these urges come back, especially if it’s a warm night in summer and I’m having trouble getting to sleep and I just feel my body taking over and wanting to satisfy the urges- again, not involving visualizing anyone in particular. I’m really unsure if this is wrong or unhealthy or just normal? Ive really struggled for a long time feeling like maybe there’s something wrong with me for having these experiences/being interested in sex since such a young age. Thanks for your help!
To us this is still considered a sin. The reason would be that God created sex to be between a man and a women. Also doing this to much will take away from what will one day be your sexual relationship between your husband someday. You will creat something that your husband at some point will not be able to live up to.
I wanto know is it a sin for husband and wife to watch porn I looked up scripture pertainig too porn but do it apply to marriage couples.
Sex is meant to be between a man and a women. When you watch porn together you allow for others to enter into your marriage bed. Yes; they are not real people but, the images of these folks will enter into it and you are then allowing for sex to be something that is not what God intended.
My trust with my partner has been broken due to his porn viewing. Will I ever trust him again? How do I build back trust? Some days I feel fine and feel like I can trust him…other days I get anxiety over the times I caught him viewing porn and hate him and wonder if I should move on…cause I dont know how to trust him anymore. Any advice would be great. Thanks.
Lilly,
It will take a while to get this back. One thing that most people who are affected by the ways of their loved ones turning to porn is their own healing. One site that I would like to point you to is partners for purity. This is a great site from people who have been in your place and can help you with the feelings and thoughts you are having.
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