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Frequently Asked Questions.
I’m struggling with my fiance’s porn problem.
I know porn is very destructive. It exploits women, gives men unrealistic expectations of sex, lowers intimacy, and I just feel as if it’s cheating to fantasize about another woman.
However my fiance doesn’t see anything wrong with pornography, and he says it’s natural. And he says he would have no problem if I watched porn.
Even his psychologist told him I was overreacting about his porn issue and said watching porn is okay.
What can I do to help him understand that porn is not natural?
He may think that it is OK and others can have that point of view as well. But, how is his relationship with Christ? Is he a believer? If he is he should see the issues with it. If not you need to let him know how it makes you feel and that it is not acceptable in your relationship.
There may need to be some tough choices here given your relationship right now.
the more and more i talk to people about the problem of masturbating and porn i deal with, the more i hear that its a natural thing that i will always have to deal with and god designed us to have this urge.. i refuse to believe this though. i feel i can have a free life in christ that is apart from this worldy view of sexual self pleasure. is this too much to ask? am i being realistic? i never seem to free myself from my habit which makes me wonder if its a reality or not.
God did provide this feeling to each of us. And this feeling is to be a gift for you and your wife some day.
This is something that you need to have self control on. I still have not found anyone who can masterbate with out having lustfull thoughts and we know that is a sin. Your thoughts and questions are all good a valid.
ey please i need someone to take care of my situation im desperate about porn… i need that someone help me please….
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