Questions

Frequently Asked Questions.

porn

I used my credit card to watch live videos on a porn site but then it charged me. so I called and told them I didn’t do that and they put it under fraud. im so scared now I just dot know what to do I was scared at the time I just relly need help right now. because im going to the bank today

I would advise that you pay the fees because you did watch it and you did give your credit card info. If you sign a fraud statement (afidavit) stating otherwise you could actually be prosecuted.

Broken youth

Hi I’m Braeden and someone suggested this website, I have been Fighting an addiction with pornography for about a year now and I have felt convicted to tell my Mom, but for a 15 year old boy that is a really hard thing to do. I don’t have a Father in my life to tell so what should I do ?

Hi Braeden,

First, I commend you for wanting to go to your mom. I think you should definitely do it. Hopefully your mom can help hold you accountable by monitoring the internet- putting on a password protected filter etc. You may not want those things but you need them. Yes I understand it can be awkward to tell your mom. I was a single mom raising two boys and this came up in our household too but it never changed my view or love of or for my children. It only helped me to know how to help them.

If you want to go through our X3pure workshop ask your mom and have her contact me 626-628-3387 to say it is OK and I will give it to you for free.

God bless you.

Porn addiction & Masturbation, depression

I dont think I can continue to keep it in & pretend everything is alright where I know I’m going through hell inside. If God loves me & If I gave myself for him why wouldn’t he make me stop? If his grace is sufficient why do I keep abusing it?

Nani,

I understand your struggle, your shame and your pain. It is difficult when we know we want to live for God and then we struggle with the sin nature of our flesh and our fleshly desires. God doesn’t make us do anything but He is faithful to forgive and to help us when we seek him.

It sounds like you need some accountability. Do you have someone you can trust and share this with? A leader? A godly friend?

Also- what about a filter? The bible tells us that we should cut off what tempts us so if it is your computer then get a filter and have your parent or a friend keep the password.

There are other ways to deal with your struggles. You are not alone. You might feel like it, but you are not.