Questions

A friend told me last night that she reads gay porn fanfiction (related to anime). I don’t know how much or if it is an addiction but I know it has been going on for a few years. I’m concerned for her. She says she has a line between fantasy and reality and she knows what is ok in fantasy that is not ok in reality. But I know even if it’s fantasy stories that could never happen, what we put in our minds affects us. I think she knows it is a problem though, because she was wondering if there are support groups for people with that kind of issue. What should I tell her?

Hi im…josh im not from the states but i need help…i was struggling with masturbation since 12 and that really pisses me off because im christian and i want to let it go…i know a few of guys (christian guys) who are struggling with this to…man is too hard…i dont masturbate always i used to do once and i feel bad and i repent and i pass two o three weeks masturbation and porn free BUT i felt again in the sin and this really really hurt me i know that this is bad and i want to grew up developing a ministry spread the word and help people…so i went to this camp…with a big band of come and live and chad jhonson and i really felt free of that sin pure! i spent maybe like 4 or 5 months free but again i felt in the freaking sin!!! PLEASE HELP ME OUT its a constant battle and i dont have enough money for the x3 software Thanks Sincerly Josh God bless you

Hi. Well I’m here for the obvious. Um I have been in love with porn since forever. I dont remember how it started but it has always been apart of my life. It started with girl on girl porn that was pretty softcore. then i moved onto guy on guy porn through erotica . The sad thing is it wasnt that bad up until a few years ago. 3 years ago i became saved. yet my porn addiction has esculated. if i have a chance to look at porn i will. i won videos, stories, etc and its really bad. the hardest thing is i have told someone. two of my girl-friends and they were gonna hold me accountable. i love them dearly but they dont do what i need them to do. i think they figured i would come to them when i feel tempted. but ive been in the game for so long that was never an option. i really need some tough love. however to make matters more difficult im from texas but im going to school in missouri so im 450 miles away from my church and friends. i started a year ago starting fresh making friends trying to find a new home church while im in school. its been tough but i love it. but my porn addiction adapted to my new surroundings. i go to a private christian school yet i worked around the system to get what i want. i just dont know what to do anymore. no one in the world knows besides my two good friends i had as accountabilty partners. i dont know who to tell. im scared to go to my youth pastor bc i love him like a dad so im embrassed. and i dnt know if i should go any of my girl friends bc i feel like they wont understand me. when you think of porn addiction you see a teen boy, not a girl. i want help but i dont know what i should do. ive seen the programs you offer but i have a dinky phone that wont let programs such as x3 watch on there so i can look at pictures but not video. plus any internet access i have i can simply use a proxy to bypass it. i just looked at porn not even five muntes ago. on my uv drive i have loads of videos i downloaded for free that im planning on watching when i go back to school. im so helpless because no one is stopping me. idk if anyone can. but this is just the tip of the iceberg. while in school i started sexting guys. no i didnt send pics thank God i just talk ‘dirty’ to them. i cant remember how many i talked to but so many have my number and i even have phone sex with them. its just so easy because all i have to do is make a fake facebook, post im interested in sexting someone and bam! they find me. i even made a skype orginally use to talk to my fi=rinds at ome but i used it to flash random guys in chat rooms that arent blocked on my schools server. i know im going so far. the last i talked to wanted to be in a relationship with me and i said yes. he talked about marriage and the sad thing is i considered it. im pushing dangerously close to meeting one of these guys and have sex withone for the first time since im a virgin. i never had a boyfriend before. ive been single all my life. its so frustating. plus the mountain of classic daddy issues since i grew up in a single mom home. im srry if my spelling and grammer suck but i really want someone to talk to about this. please help me. i love this website and the teen articles are amazing. paul r. whoever he is truly gets to me. hes my fav writer. he reminds me that one day is is possible i can bet this. plz xxchurch help me stop. i know i should. i cant remember which article but it talked about you wont be satisfied and you grwo into deeper and deeper fantasies. im getting to the point of rough sex. with the whips and chains and rape. im scared so so scared. im so over my head. i wabt to be pure again be clean. even thugh im a virigin and havent done anything sexual in any way b=not even my first kiss i feel so dirrty. please help me. i wnat my nxt ear in colege to be porn free. thanks. again srry about the spelling. my fingers hurt too much to fix it. i hope you can read it :/