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Frequently Asked Questions.
i am addicted to porn, I had friends that introduced it to me in 8th grade. I stopped being friends with them but am still addicted, how can I stop?
You are searching for help and I want to tell you that God will honor that. Spend some time in our students section on the site. Read through the blogs. Interact there if you feel led. Consider downloading X3watch to your computer and any smart phone you may have. Definitely confess your struggle to a trusted pastor, youth pastor, parent or strong godly friend. You need accountability in your life and for someone to hold you accountable. Email us and we will give you a free copy of the book OPEN to help you get the discussion going.
I want to ask about Wet dreams, is that a sinful thing? What do you guys think bout it? I’ve been fighting for my sexual purity And I’m a few weeks clean.
How can a dream be a sin? It happens when you are not awake. You are not choosing this- it is the body’s natural release. We do not believe it is sin.
Hi! I have been addicted to porn for a long time and I really want to quit! I have been out of a job for 3 months and have no money! I don’t see anything on your website that would be helpful to me that is free! If there are things that are free and would help me please point me in the right direction! Thank you for your help!
In addition to the hundreds of blogs written by others who once struggled like you do, there are interactive areas of the site where you can release some of what you are carrying around in an effort to dump the guilt and shame. Check out the Confessions and the Letters area of the site.
In addition, here are some other recommended resources:
Groups:
Celebrate Recovery: CR is free and is an international program with groups that meet in cities worldwide. CR is a program designed to help those struggling with hurts, hang-ups, and habits by showing them the loving power of Jesus Christ through the recovery process.
X3groups: While there is a fee for X3groups it is minimal compared to other options out there and we would not be doing our job if we didn’t at least point you to this viable resource. X3groups is Accountability with real, live groups. Until now, we have always aimed to start accountability conversations and relationships, but we have never seen a model before that we could sustain without being there in person. Groups are for those who are 18+
Workshops:
X3pure: If you are struggling with pornography or sexual addictions, the X3pure workshop is perfect for you. While it is not free, many have had their churches, or a loved one help them with the cost. If you are a student with a .edu email address we can provide partial scholarships. Private, online, and effective, the X3pure program can help you end the downward spiral of shame and alienation.15 video lessons with companion workbook that contains 15 workbook lessons.
Counseling:
Christian Care Counselors: Find a counselor in your area. The Christian Care Network (CCN), is a national referral network of state licensed, certified, and/or properly credentialed Christian counselors offering care that is distinctively Christian and clinically excellent.
Like-Ministries Free Resources:
Heart Support Community Join the online community of Heart Support where your story is unique but your struggle is not.
Setting Captives Free: Setting Captives Free is a non-denominational ministry which teaches the biblical principles of freedom in Jesus Christ. Some free resources are available.
God Over Porn: God Over Porn seeks to reach those bound by sexual sin and pornography addiction, fostering a community of men and women that expresses love, grace, and hope to one another through online group support, bible studies, workshops, and the Isaiah 61 Project (Prison Ministry). God over porn offers free text messages of encouragement that you can opt into.
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