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Frequently Asked Questions.
I am a Christian since ca. 3 years, so I am kind of new in all this, but I have a important question. The last time a was dating a girl, I wasn’t a Christian, so we had a prety loose relationship (no, we didn’t have sex!), but there were some other stuff I am not proud of! My question right now is, how is a christian-like relationship working? This one girl in my school, she is a Christian too, and we really like each other, but I am scared that I am doing something sinfull! Maybe you have some ideas. Thank’s!
Till,
I would really encourage you to dive into the bible and continue to read the word of God and His guidence on this topic. I would also suggest that you find your youth leader as well in your church and ask to sit down with him and discuss this in more detail with him as well. They will be able to give you the complete level of information you need in the long run.
As for dating and being pure in such a relationship you really need to talk to your girlfriend and layout the ground rules for the relationship. Talk about how you want to obey God and live in a pure life style in obediance to His word and to respect her as well. Remember that she is a child of God and you need to respect her and remember that Christ is stand right there with you every moment and every situation. I know this is tough to do with the face of temptation there so often but, this is your time to stand up and not allow for this temptation be a factor in your life now and who you will become.
I’ve been saved for 6 years. Since I was 13i started to have problems with porn. My Dad caught me or I told him about my problem 3 times. However, lately my problems are getting bad. How do I tell my dad. I have X3 Watch but it’s so easy to get around it. I hate porn and feel it is stopping me from seeing Gods plan for my life. I don’t want to loose my relationship with Christ or muddy it down on account of some cheap way of gratifying myself. It sucks. I try to resist the devil but I always fall back. Shame is also a big thing. I feel ashamed to talk to my dad about this. How do I tell my Dad?
John,
I can give you about a 99% guarantee that your dad understand your struggle. Ask him to sit down with you and talk trough it. But this time once you have talked about it set up a battle plan to bring about real change in your life. To often we tell someone but, then that is all we do and we never set up a plan to keep it out of our life.
Talk through your struggles when you feel the urge to act out and pin point your weakness and where it starts. Build up your plan around that.
As for the shame this is a tool that Satan uses to destroy us and break us down when he knows that we are close to breaking free from his grasp. Trust in the Lord and forgive yourself.
Know that you are not alone in this and that God wants you back so much. We will be praying for you.
Hi, I need answer to this question real fast, I haven’t watched porn properly in ages but I went on a porn site the other day and i didn’t click on any videos but, I wanted to watch those videos so badly but I knew it was wrong since I am a christian. So anyway the question is Porn a sin? I have never actually been addicted to porn,I just occasionally watched. When I went on site as I said before I didn’t watch but after I felt so guilty, and there is this girl I like at my school, I have been out with her a couple of times(long lasting relationship) and I asked her out about two weeks ago, and when I went on this web site I thought how am I going to go out with this girl or find the right person? I am trying not to watch porn and I just hope god can help me. But please can someone answer Is Porn a sin and, How can I find the right person, I know it might seem weird since I am only thirteen but Help me to find the one?
Is porn a sin? YES. porn is a sin for the reason that you are lusting after another who is not your wife. Lust is the sin in this topic.
I will promise you that if you start to watch this stuff that it will affect your relationship and in a very negative way.
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