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Frequently Asked Questions.
Where can I find a block for my android or something to help me out with that…that I can’t remove. I want to be set up for victory, and how do I get rid of shame? How do I find real forgiveness through christ? I am saved and am pretty strong in my faith…this is the only thing holding me back.
Jesse,
Right now I am not aware of a blocker for the Android system. You can use X3 Watch Pro for an accountability software that will let your accountability partners know if you go to a site containing adult content.
If you want to remove the shame you need to understand the real meaning of unconditional love. You need to understand that God has allowed through His son the grace and forgiveness that allows us eternal life.
You need to give it all up to Him and allow for Him to walk with you and just let it go. You need to forgive yourself and bring Him into the fight with you. You are not alone in this and I will be praying for you.
Hi, so I’ve been in a relationship for a few months and I keep coming across this situation. I am at a christian college and part of our program here is accountability, I personally don’t struggle with porn but some of the guys here do. Alot of them say they need to masturbate because if they don’t they will get wet dream’s. They feel wet dreams are just as bad as masturbating, on behalf of the guys how do they fight this. Do they masturbate and deal with the consequences of wet dreams or the other way, and are both sins? this is a linked question with a few of the guys. I’m not sure if I’ll be reading the answer but I know they would really appreciate it!
Megs,
I have to be honest in saying that I feel this is a lame excuse in order to make one feel better about masterbating. God has created our bodies in an amazing way that allows for us to function; this includes and body functions. There is no reason to view this type of thing as a sin.
How ever God has told us that sex should be with another women whome we are married to. Masterbation is not this and would be viewed as a sin.
Porn is one thing, but how do i flee from the temptation of masterbating?
As hard as it is you need to talk to somoe one and get accountability for this. You need to sit down with them and talk through thge struggles and issues that you have with masterbation. Figure out your triggers, your weakness’s, and develop a plan to battle this.
Work through your whole day, week, month and try to figure out when you are week and then use the plan you develop to help you fight against the desire to act out on the temptation.
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